Sunday, February 3, 2008

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I am apologizing for my visitors for not updating the blog. I will not be able to update it before 15 / 2/2008 for certain reasons.

Thanks hoping to come again later

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Steps of Success

I dedicate this blog to my Father, Mother, Doaa M, Kaoutar Hala and to the soul of my friend Aza Dakhly


First of all for preventing boring or misunderstanding, the skeleton of this blog is;

· Important intro and a communicating board

· Motivational definitions

· Quotes of persons that left an imprint on our life

· An advice

· Mutual interaction

· Old experiences for successful persons (this post and new posts will cover many experiences of successful person and how their road were full of struggles

Additional posts will be add also in their time or maximize the benefit and keep the thread of believe and hope connected

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Important intro and a communicating board

Don’t kill the experience by clicking "page down" to see the end of the blog. You have to help me help you. By the way, sometimes I also loose the way and need the others to help me to find the way or at least give me light to use. But the only different that I believe that every one of us have an energy to use and at certain moment we have to trust others to a limit and give them a chance to help us.

I think that may be 10 persons will begin reading, 5 of them will lose the interest of the subject, as they lose the faith long time ago, 2 will leave after they scroll down the page, as the mind connection between us will be cut. 2 will complete just for curiosity, 1 of them will mock the way of dealing and the other will change his mind and use this blog positively. The last one is the one I am really looking for, because that is the one who really discovers that he need this and really want to get out of his confusion.

We all want to be successful and self conservative persons, but only some of us work for it, and few of us know the way , a number of us know how to use all his tools and no one are sure of the results. Why we don’t try to change this statement somehow.:

We all want to be successful and self conservative persons, most of us work for it, and many of us know the way, a great number know how to use his tools and we have some expectation for the final results.

So from where do you expect me to begin. Of course you will think that I will discuss the procedures for success. Unfortunately, success is not a cocktail drink with a secret recipe, that I will pass to you. But we have first to put some stable concepts and definitions.

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Motivational definitions

What is Success?

Success is to be unique and a master of the thing that you are meant to do whatever it is

Success is to be able to help with no interest in reword

Success is to look for ideality in your life and work

Success is to be able to trust and to be trusted

Success is feeling peaceful and happiness

Success is to feel that your God like you

Success is to be ambitious enough to be a hard worker

Success is to be able top communicate with others and familiar with body language

Success is to be shining when you talk, confident when you walk, caring when you advice, Clever when u set a speech and controlling when you lead.

Success is to have an aim to live for it, to have something that you believe in

Success is to be creative, and ambitious

Success is wish others good luck with no greed or jealous

Success is easy but to keep it is hard

Success is to increase your knowledge without climbing informations of others

Success is stepping forward without breaking necks

Success is to be able to help not to be tagged as helpfull but because you need it as much as the helped person is

Success is to be able to forgive when you are strong

Success is to be able to face challenges and keep your hand clean

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Quotes of persons that left an imprint on our life

When successful persons gave you their words, you have to take it…as it is the nacre of experience.

To guarantee success, act as if it were impossible to fail.

Dorothea Brande

Success is a journey, not a destination.

Ben Sweetland

If you don't quit, and don't cheat, and don't run home when trouble arrives, you can only win.

Shelley Long

Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value.

~Albert Einstein

Success without honor is an unseasoned dish; it will satisfy your hunger, but it won't taste good.

~Joe Paterno

Eighty percent of success is showing up.

~Woody Allen

As you climb the ladder of success, be sure it's leaning against the right building.

~H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

If at first you don't succeed, you're running about average.

~M.H. Alderson

Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm. ~Winston Churchill

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An advice

Three Things in Life

Three Things in Life

Once gone never come Back

Honor, Word & Opportunities

Three Things in Life

Must not to be lost

Peace Hope & Honesty

Three Things in Life

are most valuable
Love , self-confidence & Friends

Three Things in Life

are never sure

Dream, Success & Fortune

Three Things in Life

that make U great person

Hard work, Sincerity &Success

Three Things in Life

that may destroy a person

Lies, Greed & Anger

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Mutual interaction

There is simultaneous relations and an internal ,mutual interaction between some concepts, that make you don’t even can recognize which is the head and which is the tail.. These are an example of it.

Success and Happiness

1. Share appreciation
Tell someone how much you appreciate the faith they've shown in you. Thank them sincerely for being part of your life. Tell them how much they are needed.

Feeling appreciated is one of the most important needs that people have.

2. Share time
Balance your time expenditures so you can spend time with the people that you love. Support local organizations by sharing your special talents. Volunteer time for projects that benefit others in your community, country, and world.

3. Share knowledge and ideas
Tell someone about a great book that you read so they can benefit from it too. Teach a new concept or idea that you've learned.

One of the best ways to strengthen new concepts in your mind is to share them with others. The more often you share what you've learned, the stronger that information will become in your memory.

4. Share friendship
Acknowledge someone's strengths. Let them know that you are willing to be there when they need you. Visit someone you haven't seen for a long time. Telephone friends or relatives who live far away. Introduce two friends who don't know each other.

5. Share kindness
Perform a random act of kindness for someone: a smile, compliment, or a favor just for fun. These will multiply and spread very rapidly.

There is a powerful quote by Stephen Jay Gould who said, "The center of human nature is rooted in ten thousand ordinary acts of kindness that define our days."

6. Share experience
Keep written or photo journals of your life: things you've done, places you've traveled, things you've learned. Record successes and failures. Share a happy memory. Also share the difficult times that have helped you become stronger and wiser. When shared, the value of these experiences multiplies.

7. Share enthusiasm
If you are excited about a new success, tell someone. If you're ecstatic about a new project, show your glow. Your enthusiasm will inspire others to move forward with actions that bring rewarding achievements.

Enthusiasm keeps us looking forward to the future.

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Old experiences for successful persons

Dostoevsky was the second of seven children born to Mikhail and Maria Dostoevsky. Dostoevsky's father was a retired military surgeon and a violent alcoholic, who served as a doctor at the Mariinsky Hospital for the Poor in Moscow. The hospital was situated in one of the worst areas in Moscow. Local landmarks included a cemetery for criminals, a lunatic asylum, and an orphanage for abandoned infants. This urban landscape made a lasting impression on the young Dostoevsky, whose interests in and compassion for the poor, oppressed, and tormented was apparent. Though his parents forbade it, Dostoevsky liked to wander out to the hospital garden, where the suffering patients sat to catch a glimpse of sun. The young Dostoevsky loved to spend time with these patients and hear their stories.

There are many stories of Dostoevsky's father's despotic treatment of his children. After returning home from work, he would take a nap while his children, ordered to keep absolutely silent, stood by their slumbering father in shifts and swatted at any flies that came near his head..

At the St. Petersburg Academy of Military Engineering, Dostoevsky was taught mathematics, a subject he despised. However, he also studied literature by Shakespeare, Pascal, Victor Hugo and E.T.A. Hoffmann.

Dostoevsky started to write his own fiction in late 1844 after leaving the army. In 1845, his first work, the epistolary short novel, Poor Folk, published in the periodical The Contemporary (Sovremennik), was met with great acclaim. As legend has it, the editor of the magazine, poet Nikolai Nekrasov, walked into the office of liberal critic Vissarion Belinsky and announced, "a new Gogol has arisen!" Belinsky, his followers and many others agreed and after the novel was fully published in book form at the beginning of the next year, Dostoevsky became a literary celebrity at the age of 24.

Dostoevsky was arrested and imprisoned on April 23, 1849 for being a part of the liberal, intellectual group, the Petrashevsky Circle. Czar Nicholas I after seeing the Revolutions of 1848 in Europe was harsh on any sort of underground organization which he felt could put autocracy into jeopardy. Dostoevsky described later to his brother the sufferings he went through as the years in which he was "shut up in a coffin." Describing the dilapidated barracks which, as he put in his own words, "should have been torn down years ago", he wrote:

"In summer, intolerable closeness; in winter, unendurable cold. All the floors were rotten. Filth on the floors an inch thick; one could slip and fall...We were packed like herrings in a barrel...There was no room to turn around. From dusk to dawn it was impossible not to behave like pigs...Fleas, lice, and black beetles by the bushel..."\